I have SO many rules for myself that I'm really working on evaluating. Are they helping me? Are they necessary? Loved this read. Thank you for sharing it!
Ah Courtney so happy to hear this resonated with you! I have SO many rules for myself too. I'm excited to figure them out and question the heck out of them. Would love to hear how it goes for you
I’m really having to work letting a lot of this go.
I am consciously trying to do it though and just today I booked myself into a spa for a bit of time on Sunday because my friend and I have a established a childcare swap once a month - a whole day!
We both live away from our families, so it works brilliantly for both of us and I’m choosing to do something that would ordinarily be something I feel a bit guilty, something pretty frivolous. But I’m absolutely determined not to spend the time I have on my own doing household nonsense.
I admire you a lot Rosalyn for taking steps and getting the support you need. Getting that spa time is non negotiable if it helps you reset. It's so so hard for me to ask for help but every time I do it's not so bad. That's brilliant to do a childcare swap once a month. Living away from family is HARD and I RELATE to not wanting to spend time doing household work haha
I have SO many rules for myself that I'm really working on evaluating. Are they helping me? Are they necessary? Loved this read. Thank you for sharing it!
Ah Courtney so happy to hear this resonated with you! I have SO many rules for myself too. I'm excited to figure them out and question the heck out of them. Would love to hear how it goes for you
I’m really having to work letting a lot of this go.
I am consciously trying to do it though and just today I booked myself into a spa for a bit of time on Sunday because my friend and I have a established a childcare swap once a month - a whole day!
We both live away from our families, so it works brilliantly for both of us and I’m choosing to do something that would ordinarily be something I feel a bit guilty, something pretty frivolous. But I’m absolutely determined not to spend the time I have on my own doing household nonsense.
I admire you a lot Rosalyn for taking steps and getting the support you need. Getting that spa time is non negotiable if it helps you reset. It's so so hard for me to ask for help but every time I do it's not so bad. That's brilliant to do a childcare swap once a month. Living away from family is HARD and I RELATE to not wanting to spend time doing household work haha